A Nigerian husband is heartbroken after his wife denies him intimacy while professing love for her ex-boyfriend and begging him to take her back.
This revelation was shared in a post that has been gaining traction on the social media platform X (formerly Twitter).
In ..., the husband, who remains anonymous, disclosed that for some time now, his wife has been rejecting his attempts to initiate intimacy, leaving him feeling unfulfilled and unwanted.
Their marriage, which has lasted five years, has been marked by growing intimacy issues.
The husband recently checked his wife’s WhatsApp for the first time and was devastated to find that she had been begging her ex-boyfriend to take her back while declaring her love for him.
He shared the following emotional statement online, seeking advice on how to navigate the situation:
“Good afternoon, sir Dickson. I’m reaching out in desperation, hoping you can offer guidance. I’m struggling in my marriage, and it’s taking a toll on me. We’ve been married for five years, blessed with two beautiful children, and Allah has been gracious.”
“However, things started deteriorating two years ago. Despite my love for my wife, our intimate relationship has suffered. She’s stopped initiating sex, and whenever I try, she rejects me or makes unreasonable demands. Even when she consents, it’s passionless. I feel unfulfilled and unwanted.”
“I’ve tried to provide for our family, but apparently, it’s not enough. Her lack of affection and intimacy has driven me to desperation. I’ve even resorted to masturbation, which fills me with guilt. Recently, I discovered something disturbing. While respecting her privacy, I checked her WhatsApp (for the first time in our five-year marriage) and found conversations with her ex. She’s professing lifelong love, and it’s devastating.”
“This morning, I asked for sex again, but she reminded me about our upcoming house rent payment instead. Please help me navigate this crisis. I love my wife dearly, but I’m losing hope. My current financial issues are hitting me hard, and I want to be the best dad for my kids.”
As ... spreads online, concerned individuals have flooded the comment section to share their thoughts and offer advice.
See some reactions below:
@barisukafx: “Do you think this is related to your financial issue? If yes, throw her away and lock the key. If she’s talking with her ex and denying you sex that means she’s sleeping with him. This should get you mad, but you’re still here saying you love her, while she’s disrespecting you.”
@ImancheVic17188: “The best thing for you is to divorce her & start building your life again. That’s the only way you can get back your sanity and avoid persistently hurting yourself. When a woman loves someone else other than you, your showing love to her is like pouring water inside a basket.”
@pappy_lekzy: “If your wife or girlfriend consistently decline you having s*x with her, definitely she’s getting it outside. There’s no woman who don’t like sex.”
@revi_ofthehills: “lol. Marriage in 2024 is a scam. I might not even get married. No be meme.”
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